Are you being bullied? Some tips

Bullying is sometimes thought only to accur to high school children and teens. But now everything is become more clear that one can be a victim to bullying at any age and at any place and seriously it is the worst nightmare of one's life. Parent are the one who never know their child is a victim since they think its just a part of their life and it will make their child strong. However this is completely lame, bullying has never made anyone strong directly. ...What is bullying? *when others make fun of your appearance, overweight people of any age rank high as the victim of bullying. *Teens who wear spects are no longer bullied . *students getting more grades and who don't like to participate in sports are also more prone to bullying. *Sometimes its all because of one thing you have done in the past like you participated in some high school concert or a dance and were not that good, may be you were nervous and then your peers started making fun of you . calling out by names, teasing you or irritating you are the most common methods. Un high school or even colleges atleast 1-2% students are being bullied daily and they don't like going to school or college anyway . Recently a bus monitor Karen Klein, 68 year old lady was bullied by school boys. She was ignoring like all victims do , looking through the bus window, remaining quiet but finally when she couldnt take it anymore, she broke out in tears.... Bullying is the main cause of suicide among teens as well as adults. Teen boys may start wokring out so as to take revenge ,but in the mean time ,they lose their self esteem and fall in depression, some may even fall under the trap of drug abuse. overweight teens may stop eating their lunch in school , may start overdieting but all in vain and then disasterous results may happen. thing is that you cannot control others and you may stop talking with them, this is not the solution.. Well , the solution lies within ourselves, Start meditating daily ,i bet people who are bullied have a great potential for meditation, meditate in the right way. The right way is sit in lotus position and close your eyes. Now you dont have to do anything . just one approach that we are all nothing bt the puppets of God, this body is not what I can say is mine. Well ,the soul is and most difficult thing in this world is to remain happy always , now dont think anything and give your brain and nervous ststem some rest. Dont try to think anything, and most important thing is ::::when some thoughts are runnung dont stop them as if you are trying something, make it spontaneous. Be like an atom who doesn't think or try ,just go with the flow . This exercise when done daily will have a no. Og positive results, you won't take things like bullying seriously, others will know your importance , and will ultimately realize that you have a great heart . Those people who used to bully you,will be your greatest friends and followers.

Dastgir sahib Catches fire,

Dastgir Dargah Sahib , a famous dargah of Kashmir valley catches fire today.

The power of mind: tips for your mind

Blogging is the most appropriate method for making your ideas flow through the whole world. Times before the ideas were static. Even now many people are just ignorant to use the power of internet.It is a well rumored  myth that blogging means updating news and similar contents so that one can imitate websites and then signup for ad programs like Google Adsense etc. that will make them money. Is your power of expression limited for money?.......
 I remember the quote from BhagwadGeeta ,"Your only concern is action,not the output,and you shall not judge action by the difficulty of the action.''
  Now i must say that every person lives two lives: one social and other solitary. Our social life is only present when we are with someone we can talk to or exchange feelings,but the solitary life is all time present . It does not need any mean for exchanging thought but is itself a life within subconscious .Most of the people are not well aware of this fact as they might not have experienced the power of the subconscious   . We have 5 sensory organs with which we can see, listen,talk,smell,feel but is our life limited to this? If life was all about to see listen talk smell etc. then blind people would be considered dead. Isn't it? But that comprises of only one aspect of our life -- The Conscious mind.  Beneath this mind lies the mind of desires  it is like ... if ocean is the conscious  mind, the waves are the desires. The desires are very paradoxical  and one can not attain satiety if he thinks desires are limited. However the truth is : Desires are only an illusion caused by three factors.( gunas) ... Sata --the desire of comfort...  Raja the desire of karma which binds a mind in the cycle of maya ( the material world) . and Tama caused by the ignorance of knowledge. This is only a part of the mind.  Thus one cannot attain nirvana by simply not living, but he has to attain that place ,his mind has to be capable of being in resonance with the eternal soul. Thus all our mental problems can be solved by taking a positive approach towards situations. HERE are some tips that you may find useful in dealing with complex situations"
1. Try to  attain sambudhi ( remaining same ) i.e. never to get too excited or too depressed. When you start taking the situations lightly without being tense , you wont find that situation annoying anymore.
2. Be mature, understand that a particular situation won't last for long
3.  Remember that desires are not the true friend of your mind, as the real pure mind is free of desires, only the combo of mind and body and the psychological conditioning makes it appear as such, in reality there is no relation between desire and soul . As there is no relation between Science and desire.
4.Try not to be smart. This is the most simple yet complex point. Don't try to be, The "I" doesn't exist, it is only a  mean to express one's self . If it was so easy to understand oneself ,then  you may not have quarreled with someone or thought different on a dull day etc. One can't believe in this point unless he is the real seeker.
to be contd.

India - a gift OF VEDAS

India is the land of saints and mahatmas, this has been the image of India to the world in the present age, but there was a time before the Muslim rulers and British government ,It was called the Vishwaguru, India excelled in all the field whether it be Arts ,Music( Samveda),Science(vigyan), Medicines(Ayurved), Aerodynamics,Mechanics,Physics(Bhautiki),Botany,Chemistry (Rasayana shastra), Warfare technology (Ballistics), Philosophy(Darshan shastra),Psychology,economics(arthashastra),Mathematics(Ganit), and other fields which are not yet discovered in the western world. 
  Lets start with the field of medicines , the most important of all. Dhanavantri is regarded as the father of Ayurveda. Lord Dhanavantri appeared during the Sagarmanthan and he carried the elixir ( amrit) with him. The ayurved was a developed science before the origin of christians and Muslim, shalyachikitsa and mention and procedure of other complex surgeries is in Ayurveda. The use of Kshar sutra in the treatment of Piles is still preferred than the allopathic treatment. The countless herbs and medicines (Aushidhi) can treat every kind of problem without any side-effect( exceptions in some cases,if dosage is more than prescribed)  The Use of turmeric , Kumkum(saffron) , tulsi, aswagandha , Arjuna (bark of arjuna  used for cardiac problems) is known to ever being. Yoga is helpful in increasing stamina and all the problems of mind and body  only with the well researched procedure of  holding and circulating prana. Hippocrates is said to have studied ayurveda thus resulting in the similarities of drugs and medicines , most of which are found in the Himalayas and the valleys in Himalaya range.
      Not only in medicines,the knowledge of Vedas is used as follows:
Music:  the knowlegde of algorithms ,Ragas, beats of various musical instruments like Veena , Mridangam,Tabla, flute and so on  ....  the music is said to have originated from Lord Shiva's divine Damru from which all the ragas and music came into existence. the chanting of Aum is said to relieve one from stress as Aum is the Beejmantra of universe i.e. the ultimate sound or the basic sound of universe. The veena (sitar) is said to emit vibrations which are in resonance with the vibrations of our mana (mind) .Thus nobody on earth will find the music of veena tasteless. The GODESS of Knowledge,Saraswati is holding a veena and four vedas, a Saftik mala( Quartz bead) ,Lotus and The Divine Hans ( swan) are her aasan( seat) and Vaahan respectively. if you imagine only these things together without imagining maa saraswati,  you will find it relaxing and soothing.
.....Now the language: Sanskrit is the most unambigous language on the planet. This language called the Dev-vani ( the language of God) . This  is different from all the other languages in the aspect that in sanskrit words are defined in a predefined class and thus if one makes  a sofware of sanskrit programming, one can make computer programs without any need to study C,C++ ,java .... i.e. a sanskrit learned person is equivalent to a software engineer ,but this is possible only when natural language is wsed for programing. A verse from Hindu scriptures in prraise of Maa Saraswati :  Ae hansawaaahini gyaandayani amb vimal-mati de... ( Oh! mother whose vaahan is swan, who is the source of all knowledge, bless us with politeness). This is the reason why India never attacked any country in her thousands of years of span ever, because the vedic sanskars and vedic philosophy makes a person true, non-violent , polite, and most of all tolerant.. THE reason India allowed every religion to flourish like zoroastrism, and budhists from Tibet.